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Dec 24, 2015

The snake was vicious, snarling, and dangerous. He terrified the villagers, biting the children and scaring all the adults. But sometimes he felt lonely and craved companionship.

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Dec 22, 2015

Consider this...

If you were delivering life-saving mouth-to-mouth on someone in public, you'd be totally focussed.

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Dec 16, 2015

Do you remember my client John from a few podcasts back? Who couldn't bring himself to pursue his dream of opening a small hotel in Spain because of what people might think?

Listen on to find out what happened.

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Dec 11, 2015

People say "be yourself" don't they? But they never say how.

Firstly, remember it's human to mimic other humans...

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Dec 4, 2015

'We would worry less about what others think of us if we realized how seldom they do.'
- Ethel Barrett

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Dec 2, 2015

The imagination is a wonderful thing. Except when it's not.

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Nov 26, 2015

Have you noticed that some people use disapproval as a weapon? 

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Nov 25, 2015

I've noticed that people who are overly concerned with approval assume that other people will think them 'a terrible person' or 'a loser' if they say or do something that isn't somehow right...

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Nov 19, 2015

Peer pressure can make us go against what we truly know to be decent and civilized behaviour.

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Nov 17, 2015

You may have spotted this, but anxiously seeking approval is often an attempt at trying to gain and keep a sense of control.

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Nov 12, 2015

Constantly seeking approval means we're perpetually worried that others are forming a bad opinion of us.

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Nov 10, 2015

Some approval seeking is inevitable of course - after all, we all need friends.

But if we are led through life doing what we've come to believe is 'expected of us', then, in a way, we cease to exist, to live, and be real.

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Nov 5, 2015

'Why should we worry about what others think of us, do we have more confidence in their opinions than we do our own?' - Brigham Young.

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Nov 3, 2015

If you feel guilty for something you did, ask yourself: "Did I mean to cause pain to others or myself?"

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Oct 30, 2015

If you feel guilty for something you did, ask yourself: "Did I mean to cause pain to others or myself?"

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Oct 28, 2015

Continuing on our topic of self forgiveness, think whether you've found it hard to forgive yourself because other people have had trouble forgiving you.

Consider: Are they using this as psychological blackmail with which to manipulate you?

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Oct 22, 2015

Self-forgiveness doesn't mean making excuses; rather, it's about finding understanding.

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Oct 20, 2015
  • 'If only my nose was straighter...then I'd be confident and happy!'
  • 'If only I earned ten thousand more a year...then my life would be good!'
  • 'If only I could be exactly the same as Bob...then I'd feel great about my/himself!'

Have you ever thought like that?

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Oct 15, 2015

If you feel inferior, imagine for a moment how you'd need to be to feel great about yourself.

What would you need to look like, to own, to be doing?

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Oct 13, 2015

It's so freeing when you give yourself permission to be yourself.

No one has written on his tombstone: "Here lies Ralph; he was quite like John."

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Oct 8, 2015

We can know we're inferior in some ways without this making us feel bad.

So here's what to do if you find yourself feeling inferior to someone...

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Oct 6, 2015

Do you think that perhaps the people you think of as the 'best' also have people that they feel inferior to?

Here's one way around this trap...

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Oct 1, 2015

Let's face it, most of us compare ourselves to others.

Mass media beams in the finest looking, richest, and most talented people into our lives 24/7.

This creates the illusion that we 'know' all these beautiful, clever, younger, athletic, rich, able people.

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Sep 29, 2015

 

We've been talking a lot about low self esteem, but we really need to know what makes for solid self esteem. After all, if you don't know the destination, how are you going to get there?

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Sep 25, 2015

Is there any chance you feel like this sometimes?

'If it's not perfect then it's a total failure!'

In my years as a therapist I've found this is a very common approach to life taken by people with low self esteem and general anxiety.

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